And so it seems like ages ago since

I blogged and here's one before Christmas. I don't really know what to say hey, except THIS IS ANOTHER JOURNEY and I AM STILL WITH LEE! :)

looking forward to next year. We've come a long way to just give up and baby "We are still going Stronger".

Relationships ~ when I was single, all I could think of is to have my "dream relationship". Walking' around on the

beach holding hands, watch Romantic Comedies while sharing over one gigantic popcorn and travel around the country, watching gigs and take me to bed after such an awesome night outs with friends in common. But in time, we slowly getting into the serious phase of how we define "decision-making" of which whatever it is is better for the relationship - not only for myself ( yes, because I am no longer single) Not just for the benefits of the other party but involves both of our parties. We had our ups and downs, sacrifices and time when we felt like "It's better off being single than have all these dramas".

But hey, that is relationship for ya'll.. Something that I've learned all throughout this relationship;

RELATIONSHIPS are not just like in a fairytale,

Real relationship takes two willing couple to grow up , choosing to hold on despite the bad consequences and fight for it! Not just

yourself, not just your partner, but BOTH choose to fight for it! In the name of so-called RELATIONSHIP to work out. After all,

LOVE CONQUERS THEM ALL,

right?.

It has totally been a great experience for me and Lee to have such awesome trips recently to celebrate our 4th monthsary of being together. (Monthsary = months+ anniversary) Since we haven't been going out for a year or so, that was just a made-up word Filipino's came out with if the relationship has just been going on for only some month or so. HAHA! :D

*8th of August, 2010. We went to Sun City with my sister-in-law (future at least ) with her adorable kids, Andrea and Alex! Started off with breakfast at Wimpy, then we were off and hit the long road to The Lost City in Rustenburg, THE SUN CITY! ♥

Time to call it a day and we hit the road once again with a blasting sounds of Charice, which Lee, my boyfriend got for me:) It meant a lot to me for she is…. First of all, a Filipina singer and ofcourse, where the hell do you get a Filipina singer in Africa??? LOL. I must admit that WE BOTH LOVED THE TRACKS in the cd, and so as his niece, Andrea ♪

We totally had fun, and who wouldn't? From the slowest Train I've ever been to (No excuse for a Sky Train) to the most expensive ice cream ever bought! HAHAHA! But despite all that, it was really an awesome, awesome day I'll never forget!

....my baby enj0ying himself under the Sun!e

9th of August wasn't really something to celebrate about, although it was our FORMAL MONTHSARY DATE, the 9th. We had to attend a funeral because Lee's Aunt passed away (his Dad's 2nd eldest sister) I was in shocked to see how Big his family was, for I've always known, Lee's fam in Boksburg was the only family he's got..... and clearly? Not even a quarter that I saw that weekend in that Funeral Hall. It became like a Family Reunion for a sec, for they continously taking pix.............and I was the camera girl :) But it's all good, because i have met the "LAI Clan", FINALLY!

So much for a weekend I must say....

Carried on with the usual stuff we do every weekdays, WORK OUR ASSES OF! Then the 13th of August, continuation of our MONTHSARY TREATS!

Lee booked a ticket online for a THRILLER LIVE at Teatro in MonteCasino.

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We enjoyed ourselves so far! Great stage performance, strong vocals and hectic dancing right there! And to add a bit of a drama, the Lights and Sounds system were very good and so as the rest of the Stage Presentation.

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After the show, we were starving to death…. Time to hit a resto, yay! ♥

Thai Food was our ultimate choice!

Hmmmm… good service I must say. Asian service is the best ever. And so I was completely delighted when Lee told me, he LOVED the Prawn Soup ordered for our starter, and that Crispy Beef with Sweet-Chilli sauce was a simple dish but divinecious! LOL.. Although it has a bit of a similar taste to our famous dish, Sinigang… :)

Followed by Yellow Chicken Curry with coconut milk and Fried Rice.. with uhmmmmm, PINEAPPLE in it??? ;)

Okay, okay… currently at work while writing this blog.. But isn't freaky when your boss suddenly sat at the back of my desk (Him sitting on the other desk though) As if he knows that what I'm doing is so unrelated at work??? HAHAHAHA! :D I'm not done yet! ï* This is so like, to be continued.................. :P

But all these fantabulous weekend getaway and romantic date-f0r-two wouldn't be possible without my wonderful man.... And having him in my life is really worth celebrating for, not only every MONTHSARIES, ANNIVERSARIES or certain occassions in our beautiful relationship... But I celebrate EVERYDAY for He truly is THE BEST GIFT from God that I should forever be grateful of!

New Love, New Life! :)

....Wow! Can't even count how many months I didn't blog in here. Guess I was so sidetracked with all the negative things that has happened recently and so the enthusiasm about writing has been deprived for I have been surrounded with negative energies. Not just surrounded, it lived IN me.

But, I am so so happy.... oh wait, happy is not the word... beyond happy with my life right now. I have previously posted that MONEY CAN BUY HAPPINESS, but with all these??? Oh boy! I must agree that THE BEST THINGS ARE FOR FREE... and this kind of happiness cannot be bought anywhere, or any amount of the most wanted green paper, MONEY.

Once and for all, for the very first time, I could finally talk about my lovelife without hesitation of saying, THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP IS WHAT I HAVE ALWAYS WANTED>>> AND WHAT I EVER DREAMT OF! That for some, might just be a fantasy... better yet, their wildest fantasy. And guess what??? I am living that fantasy:) Oh yeah..... I AM ONE LUCKY BIATCH, ain't I?! Well, you know what they say, GOOD THINGS HAPPEN FOR THOSE WHO WAIT!

LEE LAI Y

If I could only turn back the hands of time, would I do it again??? Hmmm... HELL NO! But if it takes getting to know him, be with him... share remarkable experiences with... and grow old with him? then yes! It'd be all worthwhile, because this man right here is THE MAN I WANNA SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH:)

I guess it's all about the small things that he does that makes me fall for him. Seems like his mission is to make me fall in-love everyday and he succeeds each time, all in 1st attempt!

His kisses, his eyes, his smile, his sense of humour, responsible, o0oh... funny! Long patience, loving, caring. Name it! I'm amazed by him. To tell you honestly, I don't even know where to start. I wish I could describe him in such a way that can make the readers understand that... YES, A MAN LIKE THAT STILL EXISTS! But me myself still lost for words. He's just so unpredictable! (in a good way though) He's a guy with full of surprises. "Guy" is not even a term to use to refer to him..., he's all the definition of a how a REAL MAN should be.

Pardon me, but I am s0o0o0o not bragging. But yeah... this girl right here has finally found happiness she has been persuing for a very long time. Sigh, wish I could write some more about him but I gotta hush for now. Besides, my boyfriend is waiting right there on the sofa for me! And I don't wanna miss that moment..... not for anything:)

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH LEE.....